The most basic thing one should realize if they want the results of the successful is that following the habits and behavior of losers and failures will not bring you to success. The people you are most closely aligned with are what you can expect to be yourself.
For too many people sowing and reaping is understood as a way of blaming themselves and others for every negative thing that happens in their lives. This is not what it means to reap what we sow, and the common “Law of Attraction” mythology that every negative thing in one’s life is a direct result of their “negative vibrations” is just not true, and is oftentimes nothing more than blaming and shaming the victim.
“Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.” (Psalms 37:4)
If you, as a Christian, have desires for things in your heart then God will give them to you if you follow His wisdom and do the most basic needful thing of asking Him for them.
“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he…” (Proverbs 23:7).
Of the people who try to improve themselves, many try to make drastic changes overnight, and this tends to not last long. What if you made a choice to improve a very small amount each day? Over the course of a year this would amount to massive improvements to your life, and it would be more sustainable than a overnight change.
